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Things that genuinely help

Planners I made, and products I have actually used and would tell a friend about. No miracle cures, just the little things that make the hot, foggy, sleepless days easier.

Our planners

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Brain Fog Log

Log what you forget and spot your pattern. Online or printable.

Coming soon

The Perimenopause Planner Pack

Cycle, sleep, mood and HRT patch trackers, plus a GP appointment prep sheet.

The Men Oh Pause picks

Coming soon

Cooler nights

Cooling pyjamas, bamboo bedding and pillows for the 3am Club.

Coming soon

Fans for every hot flush

Desk fans, handheld fans and neck fans that actually work.

Coming soon

Notebooks and journals

For lists, logs and remembering why you went upstairs.

Coming soon

Books I loved

Funny, honest and useful reads about this stage of life.

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Products featured here are not medical treatments. Please speak to your GP or pharmacist before starting any supplement or remedy.